Private money should solve a timing problem, not create a permanent one
The tradeoff is cost. Private lending is usually short term, fee-heavy, and equity-driven, so the exit strategy matters as much as the approval itself.
When a private mortgage can fit
A private mortgage is usually a bridge product. It can create breathing room, but only if the next lender path is visible before the private term starts.
- A refinance, sale, inheritance, or credit-repair milestone is expected within a defined window.
- The property has enough equity to support short-term lending risk.
- The borrower needs speed or flexibility that institutional lenders cannot provide before the deadline.

When private lending is the wrong move
Approval speed can make private money feel like a rescue. The real test is whether the file is stronger at maturity than it is on funding day.
- There is no credible refinance, sale, or repayment path.
- The new payment only delays a deeper affordability problem.
- Fees, interest, legal costs, and renewal risk have not been modelled together.

Costs to confirm before signing
The headline rate is not enough. Compare the full cash cost over the expected hold period and a delayed-exit scenario before accepting terms.
- Interest rate, lender fee, broker fee, legal fees, appraisal cost, and discharge cost.
- Interest reserve requirements or prepaid interest if the lender uses them.
- Renewal fees, extension fees, and default-rate language if the exit is delayed.

Build the exit plan first
The exit may be a sale, a prime-lender refinance, an alternative-lender refinance, completed tax filings, repaired credit utilization, or a documented income change. The plan should name the milestone, the target date, and the lender lane.




